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Christiane Link's avatar

You can see a similar divide when a suicide happens in railway. Some passengers are deeply shocked and concerned about the person who jumped and about the welfare of the driver and the emergency crew, and some people show such a lack of empathy because their journey was disrupted that my blood freezes. I would say we have an empathy crisis; it's not just triggered by cars.

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I don't really understand what your problem is in this post, and I am not convinced you are correctly ascribing the cause. I am totally not a 'motornormative' person. 96% of my journeys are by bike, I'm an active travel campaigner, and have been for 30 years, and I'm totally in favour of changes to make driving less convenient than alternatives (modal filters, speed limits, reduced parking, workplace parking levies, pollution and congestion charges - all of that. As well as city design that makes it easy to bike and walk to get your daily life done.

But I really don't understand why you are angry at people, who, seeing that the collision + aftermath is under control: enough people have stopped to help and render first aid, and then seeing that there is physically space to get past, proceed to do so. You seem to think that this is in itself a bad thing, and I'm just not seeing that. The practicality does depend on just how much space there is. If it really is so close that the guy moving his arm a bit might go under the wheel, or someone tending to him does not have space do do so, then that's too close, and yeah driving past is unreasonable, but if there is space to get past the people tending the injured guy, then that seems like a reasonable thing to do, and it's nothing to do with motornormativity - it's just practical: there is nothing much to be gained from waiting/add superfluous bystanders.

I don't see why you think more people should stop and stay and watch. What does that achieve once there are 'enough'? I have seen a screaming motorcyclist on the road (well, actually he ended up on a driveway). I stopped to look (I was on a bike) and was told off for gawping, by someone looking after him. So, in contrast to your view, that guy _didn't_ want everyone to stop and watch, and I think he has a point.

So yeah, I hear your anger, but I genuinely don't understand why you find people (presumably quite carefully) driving past to be such an offensive thing, and as a not-at-all-motornormative person who would probably do the same thing, I think your reasoning about motornormativity being the reason is incorrect (although it may apply to some people). As I say the reasonableness does depend on the exact physical layout, and you've not drawn us a diagram, so it's hard to say, but I disagree with your apparent premise that no-one should ever drive past a collision/injured person, even if loads of people have already stopped.

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